How to Disagree with Your Spouse
If you never have a disagreement with your spouse, I applaud you! And I
want your autograph! Marriage is not an easy undertaking for anyone but
what truly important thing is? In the ward in which I grew up, the current
patriarch and his precious wife have an incredible marriage. This dear
sister has told others that she and her spouse have never had an
argument. She clarified that they had come close once but then they both
started laughing once they realized what was happening. I am far too much
of a live wire apparently. I don’t think that means they never had a
difference of opinion, I think it meant that they did not allow their tempers to
get involved.
How can we share our opinions and ideas without giving or taking offense?
First, try not to be offended if your spouse disagrees with you. Elder Bednar
recently said, “When we believe or say we have been offended, we usually
mean we feel insulted, mistreated, snubbed, or disrespected. And certainly
clumsy, embarrassing, unprincipled, and mean-spirited things do occur in
our interactions with other people that would allow us to take offense.
However, it ultimately is impossible for another person to offend you or to
offend me. Indeed, believing that another person offended us is
fundamentally false. To be offended is a choice we make; it is not
a condition inflicted or imposed upon us by someone or something else.”1
We can choose to allow our hearts to remain open in order to understand
our spouse better.
Second, approach the topic when you are both in a good mood, rather than
reigniting embers of discord.
Third, talk about yourselves as a team, rather than pointing the finger at
your spouse and what you perceive that he or she does incorrectly. No
one wants to hear their name smeared for every wrongdoing in the
household.
Fourth, use soft or gentle language. Proverbs 15: 1 teaches,
“A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.”
Fifth, remember that your spouse is your friend. How would you treat a
friend who had a different opinion than you? Would you cross your arms
over your chest and blow out your breath then refuse to talk to your best
girlfriend? Would you slam the door on your way out if a friend asks you to
help him with something? Doubtful.
Our responses of frustration often times come from feelings of hurt,
mistrust, or disrespect in the relationship or from other circumstances
rather than after just one misspoken word. It is up to each one of us to
recognize how our own emotions and thoughts affect our behavior,
because they do indeed affect our relationship with our loved ones.
Not one of us is always right. We bring our differences to the marriage and
hope that we can find a way to make them enhance our relationships,
rather than allow them to pull us apart. We certainly can do that as we learn
how to communicate with each other and seek the companionship of the
Holy Ghost in all aspects of our relationship.
1 “And Nothing Shall Offend Them,” Elder David A. Bednar, General
Conference, October 2006
A Reliable Cyber Specialist Who Treats Lost or Stolen Bitcoin
I’m Nathan Armstrong, and I’m excited to tell you about this from the United Kingdom. I lost every penny I had after being tricked into purchasing bitcoin that had been stolen a few months ago. Despite the horrible circumstances I found myself in, my hopelessness was short-lived as a colleague introduced me to WIZARD LARRY RECOVERY, a company that specialises in Recovery Solutions. I was successful in recovering the stolen money with the help of Wizard Larry Recovery Service. I was able to recover my $625,000 with the assistance of Wizard Larry Recovery, after I was told by another group of hackers that it was irreversibly gone. It was a great relief, and Wizard Larry Recovery should be contacted by everyone who is a victim for this financial trick.
Reach out to them Through;
Whatsapp +4,4,7,3,1,1,1,4,6,7,4,9
Email wizardlarry@mail.com
Website: https://wizardlarryrecovery.com
A Reliable Cyber Specialist Who Treats Lost or Stolen Bitcoin
I’m Nathan Armstrong, and I’m excited to tell you about this from the United Kingdom. I lost every penny I had after being tricked into purchasing bitcoin that had been stolen a few months ago. Despite the horrible circumstances I found myself in, my hopelessness was short-lived as a colleague introduced me to WIZARD LARRY RECOVERY, a company that specialises in Recovery Solutions. I was successful in recovering the stolen money with the help of Wizard Larry Recovery Service. I was able to recover my $625,000 with the assistance of Wizard Larry Recovery, after I was told by another group of hackers that it was irreversibly gone. It was a great relief, and Wizard Larry Recovery should be contacted by everyone who is a victim for this financial trick.
Reach out to them Through;
Whatsapp +4,4,7,3,1,1,1,4,6,7,4,9
Email wizardlarry@mail.com
Website: https://wizardlarryrecovery.com
A Reliable Cyber Specialist Who Treats Lost or Stolen Bitcoin
I’m Nathan Armstrong, and I’m excited to tell you about this from the United Kingdom. I lost every penny I had after being tricked into purchasing bitcoin that had been stolen a few months ago. Despite the horrible circumstances I found myself in, my hopelessness was short-lived as a colleague introduced me to WIZARD LARRY RECOVERY, a company that specialises in Recovery Solutions. I was successful in recovering the stolen money with the help of Wizard Larry Recovery Service. I was able to recover my $625,000 with the assistance of Wizard Larry Recovery, after I was told by another group of hackers that it was irreversibly gone. It was a great relief, and Wizard Larry Recovery should be contacted by everyone who is a victim for this financial trick.
Reach out to them Through;
Whatsapp +4,4,7,3,1,1,1,4,6,7,4,9
Email wizardlarry@mail.com
Website: https://wizardlarryrecovery.com
Hello my name is Timo Olavi Granberg, If you’re looking for a trusted expert in Bitcoin recovery, George Wizard Recovery Home is the one to turn to. After losing $112,000USD in a Bitcoin investment scam, I was feeling hopeless. However, George Wizard Recovery Home professional guidance and relentless pursuit of my lost funds restored my faith. His knowledge and expertise in the field are truly remarkable. Thanks to George Wizard Recovery Home efforts, I successfully recovered my funds. I recommend his services to anyone seeking assistance with Bitcoin recovery. Email. Or
georgewizardrecoveryhome@gmail.com
WhatsApp: +1 (908) 768-4663
NO UPFRONT PAYMENTS
After falling for the tricks of fake investors who promised quick withdrawal and failed, I was finally able to recover my money with the help of mr BRUCE from {RECOVERMYLOSS} However, I was shocked at how quick this process was completed. I was informed as to the urgency of completing my case in time but I did not expect my funds in less than a week. It felt unreal when I was told my funds had been recovered until I received them in my wallet address. Is every recovery this fast? I believe the experience of these team is instrumental in delivering quality service in time.
RECOVERMYLOSS000 art GMAIL dot COM
whatsapp:+1 {747} 361 3622
101 N BRAND BLVD.
11TH FLOOR GLENDALE CALIFORNIA 91203.